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	<title>Comments on: Good Lessons From Strange Places</title>
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		<title>By: Christian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2008 00:26:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bruce, I appreciate that you didn't see who wrote that.  I wrote it and I wasn't sure that the system gave me credit for writing it.  (Tim, can you change that?)

I'm still dealing with the tech stuff.  I print everything.  I'm learning. Maybe I'm not a perfectionist, maybe I have control issues.  Regardless, the point is what we can learn by thinking critically about what we read, hear, and see around us.

Thanks for reading.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bruce, I appreciate that you didn&#8217;t see who wrote that.  I wrote it and I wasn&#8217;t sure that the system gave me credit for writing it.  (Tim, can you change that?)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m still dealing with the tech stuff.  I print everything.  I&#8217;m learning. Maybe I&#8217;m not a perfectionist, maybe I have control issues.  Regardless, the point is what we can learn by thinking critically about what we read, hear, and see around us.</p>
<p>Thanks for reading.</p>
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		<title>By: Bruce Gerencser</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bruce Gerencser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 17:18:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok I was writing to Christian :)

Yeah............there are days I wish for a simple command line.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok I was writing to Christian :)</p>
<p>Yeah&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;there are days I wish for a simple command line.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Reed</title>
		<link>http://churchvoices.com/archives/474#comment-10358</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Reed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 16:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bruce,
Christian actually wrote that, but its nice to see another DOS refugee running around.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bruce,<br />
Christian actually wrote that, but its nice to see another DOS refugee running around.</p>
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		<title>By: Bruce Gerencser</title>
		<link>http://churchvoices.com/archives/474#comment-10357</link>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Gerencser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 15:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tim wrote:

I’m a perfectionist.  Sort of.  If there is something that I think should be done a particular way (i.e. the right way) then I am inclined to say something and/or take over.  This is not healthy and is not conducive to good friendships.

Bruce replies:

I understand you! I am a perfectionist. Over the years it has hurt me and strained relationships. Disability has forced me to re-evaluate my perfectionsim.Now I can't "do" everything so it is "done" to my lofty standard. Quite humbling.

I have always been a computer geek.(since dos days)I usually did anything tech related in the Church. Bulletins, for example. Why have some nit wit Church member do it.........when you can do it faster than the time it takes ti explain it to the Church member.

I had a little epiphany in the office one day:

Just because you can do something better doesn't mean you should. 

I struggle with this. My kids accuse me of being like Mr Monk on TV. :) 

Pefectionism isn't all bad. It just needs to be controlled and sanctified.(and that's the hard part)

Bruce</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tim wrote:</p>
<p>I’m a perfectionist.  Sort of.  If there is something that I think should be done a particular way (i.e. the right way) then I am inclined to say something and/or take over.  This is not healthy and is not conducive to good friendships.</p>
<p>Bruce replies:</p>
<p>I understand you! I am a perfectionist. Over the years it has hurt me and strained relationships. Disability has forced me to re-evaluate my perfectionsim.Now I can&#8217;t &#8220;do&#8221; everything so it is &#8220;done&#8221; to my lofty standard. Quite humbling.</p>
<p>I have always been a computer geek.(since dos days)I usually did anything tech related in the Church. Bulletins, for example. Why have some nit wit Church member do it&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;when you can do it faster than the time it takes ti explain it to the Church member.</p>
<p>I had a little epiphany in the office one day:</p>
<p>Just because you can do something better doesn&#8217;t mean you should. </p>
<p>I struggle with this. My kids accuse me of being like Mr Monk on TV. :) </p>
<p>Pefectionism isn&#8217;t all bad. It just needs to be controlled and sanctified.(and that&#8217;s the hard part)</p>
<p>Bruce</p>
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